Many men are never taught how to talk to
women. Because of this many guys go through life without the ability to attract
a woman. Here are 15 tips to help make sure you aren’t making mistakes with the
women you’d like to attract:
1. You should talk about “emotional” topics
like childhood memories, future ambitions, or her passions. These conversation
topics will open up her emotional floodgates.
2. Women want a guy who is not afraid to lead
her. While talking to a woman take control of the conversation. Never wait for
her to dictate what you’ll be talking about.
3. Pay attention to the non-verbal cues a
woman is giving you. If you’re standing too close to her, accidentally spitting
when you talk, or making her feel uncomfortable in any way… she will send you
hints. Pay attention to them.
4. Remember this motto “Fun not Funny.” Women
are attracted to men who allow them to have fun. Don’t concentrate on having
the funniest jokes. Concentrate on showing them the most excitement and
enjoyment.
5. Tease women. One of the easiest ways to
take a conversation to a fun and flirty level is to begin to tease women. Think
back to your time on the playground. In the world of dating… what worked on the
playground is effective all over again.
6. Get intimate with her. Women are turned on
by men who are not afraid to take a conversation to a personal, intimate level.
7. Use things like “cold reads” to turn women
on. Women love to hear opinions about themselves. Tell her what you observe
about her.
8. Avoid complimenting a woman too much.
Women are turned off by men who come across as “needy.” If you are
complimenting a woman too much she will think you’re trying to impress her.
Which will have the opposite effect.
9. If you want to know how to talk to women
in a way that doesn’t bore them… Avoid asking too many “interview” style
questions. Instead state your opinion
about things.
10. Remember: Statements over questions.
Instead of saying “where did you grow up?” Say “You don’t look like you grew up
around here.” This allows you to make observations about her and express your
personality.
11. Don’t hide your identity. Don’t be afraid
to talk about whatever you’re passionate about.
12. Never compliment her on her eyes, looks,
or body.
13. Say something that lets her know that you
view her in a “sexual” way. If you don’t, you run the risk of winding up in the
“friend zone”.
14. Use conversation “games” to keep the mood
fun and flirtatious. Games can be anything like “truth or dare” or to less extreme
games like the “5 questions game”.
15. Don’t give away your hand so fast. Women
like men who are a challenge. If you want to keep a woman’s interest she has to
feel like she is slowly winning you over. If she thinks you’re too easy… she’ll
lose interest.
The best way to think about how to talk to
women is to think about what kind of fun, playful, and sexual conversation you
would most enjoy. Talking to a woman doesn’t have to be difficult. You just
need to be aware of what they are turned on by and what turns them off. Follow
the list above and you’ll do just fine.
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